Monday, March 28, 2011

bittersweet goodbye



Hello :) Goodbyes are bittersweet. Although, after over three years of trying something that just doesn't seem to work out it's time to let it go. Relationships are complicated yes, but if the negative is outweighing the positive in a relationship then its seriously time to reconsider how healthy and realistic that relationship is for yourself. I believe that so many times young women deprive themselves of their own emotions and only consider how their partner makes them feel. Ladies!!! we are young, smart, motivated, and beautiful! Don't settle for anything less than you deserve. Realize your worth and make your partner realize that as well, even if that means walking away from them. It is true, people will only treat you how you let them treat you.

The world is at our hands, take hold of that and stay positive! Stay around positive energetic people, and most of all enjoy your life. Try being single for a while. It is so liberating :)

All of this for an OFTD post, well it was important for me to express this because I have met way too many amazing young women who are stuck in dead relationships.

I wore this outfit yesterday to work. It was quite warm and comfortable, but a little too warm for being inside a store all day.

Cargo pants: f21
Knit sweater: kohls?
vest: unknown (this is my favorite item in my closet btw)
bag: f21
necklace: f21

5 comments:

Grace said...

I love your outfit, and reading what you had to say about breaking up really helped me a lot. Thank you so much xoxo I hope being single is as liberating for me as it is for you and thank you for reminding me that my life revolves around me, not a boy!

Nancy Andrade said...

this is such a cute outfit...very casual but well put together! :)

thank you for stopping by my blog too!

xoxo

JooDeeJay said...

thank you both :)

GretchTM said...

Super cute outfit! I really like your denim vest.

Hannah said...

You are a beautiful girl with beautiful words!! I am happy you are happy :) and your outfit is lovely! I love it!

xox